Q: Monica do you believe in soulmate connections? If so do you think you have one with Derrick? Tammy H.
A: Tammy wow what a question, actually I did not at first but to my understanding a soulmate connection can be with many. Since you are asking about Derrick, I should assume that you mean a romantic soulmate. Well I don't think Derrick is my soulmate. I have asked a couple who claim to be soul mates and they said it was more of a soul connection as if they had known each other a life time. Just seeing these two together change my mind about the concept. When they are together,they are truly nothing but pure love. It's what people work at a life time, and it seems it was easy for them. I just don't think we connected in that way but we love each other very much. Beside the couple talks about unconditional love for each other. I just don't think we are their as of yet. Unconditional love for me is what you have for you're kids and close family. Unconditional love for a partner has nothing to do with possessiveness and so forth. They are a very intense couple but a joy to be around.
Q: It sounds to me you are not ready for marriage or anything. David.
A: Well David I assure you that I'm ready and it is very much so you're opinion.
Q: I have been dating someone older, it has become a big deal to friends and family. When I'm with this person I don't see age at all. What do I do? Angela T.
A: Angela it seems has if they are judging you from a physical level. Not knowing that you're souls are the same age. When the two of you start to see it as a physical level then you both will see age. Continue to see each other from a soul level and move forward. Remember everybody else won't understand but you are not living life for everybody else.
Q: How do you know it's just not you're imagination, when it comes to this love stuff? Well I guess I should say maybe a little one-sided. Kelly C.
A: Kelly I think to truly love anyone it is the imagination that let you fall in love in the first place. You will have to take off the rose tinted glasses and see the truth of that person. It will be up to you to accept that person for who he or she is. The unrequited love factor can be a hard pill to swallow for some. I think if you set boundaries and just know that you can't force anyone to do anything. Beside would it be love if you force them to love you back. If you 're into astrology I have this aspect in my birth chart. Two of my personal planets fall in my 12th house. It made sense that every relationship that I came into we're not by choice. Guys would be interested and I wouldn't at first but I would fall for them. I would grow to love them but it wouldn't last long. Guys that I was into, it was always a feeling of one-sided. It was never reciprocated the same way. I did not understand until I had a birth chart reading. My two personal plants are stuck in my twelfth house and they are Mars/Venus. The twelfth house represents the spirit, dreams and the subconscious. There’s no room for ego here: Pisces dissolves whatever it touches, so this is where you let go of all superficial attachments. Astrologers refer to it as the house of the Ultimate Other (Spirit or higher power). Those same planets fall into an ex's 12th house that holds his North Node making everything very intense at times. So it will make it feel unrequited for him as well.I had a lot of aspect with him, making it very intense. We have north and south node aspects giving us that feeling of karma. I do think his the only one that my Mars/Venus falls into his twelfth house.
The Twelfth House
The 12th house is about all that we go through in order to make our dreams into reality and manifest them in the world around us. It covers what we are willing to put up with, the sacrifices we will make in order to bring across what is really important. This is connected to prisons, institutions, betrayal, self-undoing, and the like, because it is here that we must choose to take some possible abuse for the sake of the message we are carrying, or blow it all away with a negative reaction.
All the houses:
The angular houses (1, 4, 7, 10) are associated with a self-activating quality and have an immediate impact on the structure of one's life. The keyword for the angular houses is ACTION.
The succedent houses (2, 5, 8, 11) are associated with individual desires and the areas of life we want to control and consolidate. The keyword for this type of house is SECURITY.
The cadent houses (3, 6, 9, 12) are areas where there is input, exchange, and distribution of thoughts and observations. The keyword for these houses is LEARNING.
House by Element
Fire Houses ("THE TRINITY OF LIFE"—1, 5, 9)
These houses are associated with one's attitude toward life and the experience of being alive. They represent an out pouring of energy into the world and aspirations that motivate us to do so.
Earth Houses ("THE TRINITY OF WEALTH"—2, 6, 10)
These houses are associated with the level of experience wherein we try to satisfy our basic NEEDS in the practical world. Planets in these houses indicate energies that can most easily be put to use in dealing with the physical world, and that can be developed as expertise in management of resources.
Air Houses ("THE TRINITY OF RELATIONSHIPS—3, 7, 11)
These houses are associated not only with social contacts and relationships of all types, but also with CONCEPTS. The person with an emphasis on these houses lives in the mind and in relationships.
Water Houses ("THE PSYCHIC TRINITY"—4, 8, 12)
All of these houses deal with the past, with the conditioned responses that are now instinctual and operate through the emotions. Planets in these houses show what is happening on subconscious levels and indicate the process of gaining consciousness through the assimilation of the essence of the past, while simultaneously letting go of the useless memories and fears that hold us back. The person with an emphasis on these houses lives a great deal in the feelings and in his or her deeper YEARNINGS. The emotional and soul needs dominate much of the person's life activity and energy expenditure. Planets in the water houses affect the individual's emotional predisposition, how he or she copes with fulfilling private needs and confronting obsessive feelings, and to what extent the person lives in a private way or in the inner life. The keywords for the water houses are EMOTIONAL and SOUL.
Thanks to Astrology com about the houses
North Node (or True Node)The true node, also known as the north node, is your karmic direction in this lifetime. Like a lighthouse, it points the way towards your destiny. When you reach for your dragon’s head, the universe supports you in fulfilling your soul’s purpose. You can learn about the type of karma you are here to fulfill by looking at the sign of your north node. The node will also occur in a house, which shows the area in which this karma will take place.
The south node is representative of the karma from your past lives, or perhaps your childhood. Put simply it reflects your past. In that sense, it can represent areas of comfort (to the extent that the familiar is always comfortable). However, when considered as the complement to the north node, it may have a somewhat negative connotation in that the native is encouraged to move away from the past, the comfortable, the familiar, towards the future. On the other hand, the south node can represent skills learned. The sign of the south node suggests how the past might be characterized in terms of experiences and feelings, while the house of the south node suggests the life areas in which the significant events took place.
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