Connecting on all Levels
Well Pastor Keith Jones of the New Light Spiritual Church of God. He started off with how to make a marriage work and last. Derrick was on the phone, Pastor Keith gave Derrick a look. He hangs up his phone and focus. " Well first the longevity of most marriages is connecting on all levels." The Pastor had talked with me about this already. I have been thinking about it every since he brought it up. He start's with "It's four elements to longevity 1. Physical 2. Intellectual 3. Emotional 4. Spiritual . You can make it with two of these but you will have to work at the other two. If you already have all four already you hit the Holy Grail. Only the two of you will know if you have this. We can connect with many on a physical level but it's one of the other three that will drive the marriage to longevity. You can have two of the four and you can break some ground but if you haven't learned the others by the tenth year. You might start to have questions by now, but you have to put in the work."
Well this got me thinking that we do connect on all levels but I think it's natural and it's in you're energy field. This is nothing you learn it's something you're soul already knows. It will be some that you connect with easier than others. Example you meet a guy/girl and he/she is so hot and you sleep together. You can't keep you're hands off each other. Weeks later maybe months later but you realize that you have nothing in common but physical attraction. I figured that most of my relationships only made it to two out of the four or just one out of the four. I think with Derrick I'm looking at three out of the four but he likes to think we have all four. If we we're to be honest with ourselves it's really only three. I do remember an ex claiming to have connected on such a level once. I did not deny what he was saying, anyone that truly knows me. They know I have a hard time committing to any one thing and his theory scared me.
I would be good connecting at just two of the levels. Well at that time I would have but now I'm a big girl. I want all four just like any one else. At the time it was just too much to handle. When someone looks at you and it seems as if they can see you're soul. The deepest parts of you that you want to keep hidden. They can see beyond the stories you tell everyone else If you could connect on such a level, would it be such a bad thing? At the time it was for me, the very fact that he set my soul on fire. It was a feeling I had never had before. Instead of embracing such a love I ran for the hills. I should have stood still and brave the storm of love. The love that we all go searching for only to realize it starts with you.
When you connect on all four levels with another, they will make you go inward to balance out all wounds. The wounds for those who did you wrong and you just build up that thick mask over you're heart. When this person comes he/she will blow all that out the window. You will start to heal weather you want to or not. If you connect with someone on such a level it is really a vibration. You just vibrate at the same frequency as the other.
You must realize that ego has nothing to do with it. To connect on all levels in such a way is to have someone that compliments you. He or she is the yin to your yang and this is inner marriage.
These are my own personal opinions and not of The Chicago Journal
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Love Letter's From Trey
I don't know how not to love you, if I could turn it off. That's just it I don't want to turn it off this feeling that I have for you. The way of the world say's you can't have this type of love. We both know better but we will pretend like the rest of the world. I could remember being love sick, not being near you was a bummer. The mere smell of you was just a enough to get past the longing. I know it's too late, now that your Involved. The day you marry this lucky guy I will be crushed. Crushed that he got one step ahead of me. I guess I would have questions for him to make sure he have you're best interest at heart. I would ask him if he notices when you're nervous that you bite you're lip. I know within my soul we belong together
From The Editor
Well first of all any one that can set my soul on fire. Let's just say I probably wouldn't have gotten to number husband five. My dear Monica writes all this fairy tale type of stuff but she might be onto something. They talk about some of these things in movies. Who's to say any of it's not true, who knows. I just know that this column is catching and readership is up ten percent. So If I have to find another to set her soul on fire to keep up the numbers. I don't think it actual works that way but I will try it.