Not So Committed Monica Trailer
Q: Dear Monica,
How do you feel about those, who claim to speak the truth even if it hurts?
A: Courtney, good question this could be a long answer, but I will try to make it short. I feel like you can speak the truth but make sure it's not from the ego. We hear people saying i'm just telling you the truth but make sure the energy is align for the right reason. If your truth is to hurt someone, then ask yourself is it really about you? Sometimes our truth is from ego and it's really about what we don't like within ourselves that we project onto others. When you speak with the truth from your heart the other will know you mean well. The truth is not really suppose to hurt if it's align with good intentions. Remember the truth will help both parties grow.
I have a friend, who I feel drains me and I'm thinking of ending our friendship.
A: Dear Anonymous,
Oh how I understand, and it's great that you are aware of it. So now that you are, It's ok to tell your friend to stand in his/her on energy. When you feel drained from anybody, it means it's not an even flow of energy. Sometimes people don't know they are doing it and some know very well what they are doing.
Bad Example: if you find yourself always paying for everything or going the extra mile for the other person. (Not an even flow of energy)
Good Example: Your friend pays for dinner and you get the movie (sorry for cheesy example) but you get it right it's an even flow of energy.
Be careful of those who talk negative or sit in negative energy. That can be draining as well and it's ok to let them know they are draining you.
You can end it or you can just let them know not to drain you. Make sure you don't drain others as well.
Why do some envy or may even be jealousy of others in love. Brit
Well first you might not want to use those words in the same sentence as love. I think everyone has an idea or concept of what they think love is. It could be any two of these words Fairy tale, Magic. It's not like you see in the movies per se but close. The only problem is they have a check list. When it's truly the real deal the check list goes away. Sometimes we search and search for someone else to love us. Just to know that someone else found it before we did. I can truly say that you don't go looking for love. It will find you once you master loving yourself. This can take a life time to do but once you get the basics. Plus everything that looks good on the outside might not always be. What's for someone else might not be for you.
Letters from Trey
I realize that we are both on the same journey but maybe different paths. It might be just one of us, is just not ready or maybe neither of us. The power of letting go is hard but rewarding to the soul. I see that I have forced on you what I have awaken too, not understanding that yours would come in time. You are free to follow your path as I am as well. Sometimes time apart is away of nourishing the soul, because my dear this is nothing more but a soul connection. Part of me says that but I know it is of the soul that I connect with you . It is the physical way of life that gets in the way. This time apart from you will not be easy and my heart will call out to you. It's part of our learning process and I have accepted that. I have a question for the both of us that I don't know if we will ever answer completely. How can you commit to another? Here is my go of the answer "If you can't be loyal to yourself first."