Q) Monica you haven't posted in awhile, what's going on? Very concerned Nia
A) Well Nia thank you for wanting to know what's going on with me. It seems with the planning of the wedding it's been hard for me to update you guys. I think of you guys all the time and I know none of you guys personally. However making sure you guys get the story or answers you need is always a pleasure.
Q) Monica I have been dating a guy for a couple of months now and he said I needed to let him be the man. What do you think about this? V. Neal
A) A real man would not make this statement, due to the fact that they will already know who they are. I find when a man makes this statement. It's when they've met a woman who is use to taking care of her own needs. So instead of making that statement,just show her that you are reliable. Ladies be open minded to letting the man take the lead. Fellas you must remember if you act like you don't know where you're going, she will not follow. What I mean if you are not secure in what you want and need. When you get a strong woman, she will know. You being a man is not telling her what to do vice verser. It's about you being that solid person who takes the lead and she will support you. These roles can be interchangeable giving the push pull effect. (Yin/Yang) I hope this helps.
Q) Do you really think loving yourself will help in dating? Chad
A) Chad Yes and No, I think loving yourself will help in relationships not just dating someone. Dating is short term and a relationship can be years, hell an eternity for some. When accepting all things about you, it shortens up the list you have for the other.
Q) In your last post you talked about "a pulling of the other is the magnet pulling you to you're true self." I think I have met someone like this, but I find it hard now to interact with this person. Why would this happen if it's to help me?
A) Kayla, it will help you if you accept what's happening to you. When meeting someone unexpected and not looking for change. You have to erase the fact you we're not looking for change, We create a path and make goals that sometimes our souls do not resonate with. Yes it's true we have free will, but following our souls path leads to happiness. The kind of happiness that we are in constant search for. This is what meeting the other person is about, to help you look at whats going on in your life. Sometimes we see what's wrong and keep going on as if nothing is wrong. The universe stood by to see if you would try to find your way back on you're path. When you fight the change, you only fight yourself. This would be why you find it hard to interact with that person. He/She makes you look deep within and sometimes the truth hurts.
Letters from Trey
It seems fair to say that you could love anyone but to be in love. Before you I just loved anyone who would pay attention, I'm not so sure if that is the correct way to say it, but with you it is different. I am utterly in love with you and only you. I can't help but to believe that you are too,last night says it all. The way are bodies collide and complete bliss. It's this feeling that won't let me let go of you. I know to truly love someone is to let them go, even if it hurts. So Monica if it's hard for you to make a choice. Maybe it's not the same for you as it is for me. I know that it's you that I want and connect with in such a way. In a way that leaves me breathless and wanting more of just you. You are the love of my life, and I will never know if I am for you.
Love Trey P.
Behind the scenes
Well I have to Thank so many people that took the time to help me. I had the pleasure of meeting and working with so many people. It was such an overwhelming feeling of all the support of getting this short done. We do have some small scenes to be shot, I would have to say that the Wedding was the biggest scene out of the whole film. The biggest due to hosting such a large cast/crew for my very own short. I had about forty replies for extra parts only half of them showed up. This was great for me since I was very concern on how I was going to feed them all. Due to the fact I was in charge, I had on many hats and forgot a lot of things. We made due without a lot of things, but kept moving forward. I am happy how everything turned out. I could not have worked with a better cast and crew. I will put out more pictures of the wedding next post.
From the Heart
Everything that's going on in the world at the moment, is a sad reality. The reality of the ego clouding our judgement, an in turn causes all the chaos of the world as we speak. If we lead with are hearts instead of the ego. We all have to try and learn to be Love,Light and Energy right now. The Universe needs us to be love to each other and the Universe. As well as light and energy to replenish what we take on a daily bases.